Heidi, most detergents work about the same as far as getting your clothes clean goes. It’s the scents and skin sensitivities that make the differences.
A really good option, however, for HE washers is your own homemade detergent. Works just as well as any name brand, great for sensitive skin (and babies), very little suds (so good for HE), and only costs cents per load to use.
1c grated ivory soap (or any natural, unscented, etc… ivory is 99.9% all natural)
1/2c borax
1/2c washing soda

All natural, you just mix the 3 together and use 1-2TBSP per load.

It says safe for ALL machines I got some it smells good but i think the liquid makes the clothes softer